Resource Management: Fillers
This month we are focusing on helping you with Resource Management, and this week is specifically about fillers! Check out last week’s blog post here to get some background info on the reservoir. The key Resource Management is about learning how to run our lives so we have enough emotional resources to deal with the […]
Why CORE?
CORE is one of my absolute favorite things to talk about! In a nutshell, CORE is the temperament (kind of like personality) model that I developed over years of research. It helps us understand the innate part of us that doesn’t change and motivates why we do the things we do! CORE can help us […]
Conflict Resolution: Communicate
Dealing with and resolving conflict is easily one of the most difficult things for most relationships! Conflict is a crucial part of any relationship. The key to a healthy relationship isn’t avoiding conflict, it’s learning how to do conflict healthily. CPR of Conflict Resolution The three main components of conflict resolution can be remembered with […]
Rewiring the Brain: Cognitive Cycles
Last week, we talked about how the brain works. Now that we understand the basics of neurology, we can learn how to help our brains work healthily! Brain/Body Interactive Cycle This is the basic process that occurs as we interact with the world. When something happens, our body reacts and sends a message to our […]
Sexuality
Why is Sexuality Important? The goal and result of healthy sexuality in a marriage is closeness! Sex has the potential to bind us together. The way we handle sex influences the love in our relationship, and the love and safety in our relationship influences sex. Sex is inherently vulnerable, so when we are vulnerable and […]
Welcome to Healthy and Happy!
Welcome to the Healthy and Happy Relationship blog. Why “Healthy and Happy” and not “Happy and Healthy” ? In order to have happy relationships and happy lives, we have to be willing to do the things that create “Happy.” In other words, you have to start with healthy so that you can be happy. One […]